Sunday, February 22, 2009

Seasons Change

"They say people live their life in seasons and everything that happens is for a reason"- Kanye West

As the end of this brutal winter slowly begins to wrap up, I ponder about seasons life that is.

In my attempts to change for the "better",I really try to have the Seasons mentality...and I find that it really helps me put things in perspective.

For example, when a friendship ends, it is easier to cope witht the loss once you realize that that person was there for a season. The thing to do after that realization is to think of all the things you learned from that person. Good or bad,everything that came from that situation is beneficial to your future, because now you know what to do and what not to do next time.

A brief example of this seasons theory is an old roomate of mines. I'm not going to get into the details or backround of that person, but let's just say I learned a lot about myself after the friendship ended. I found a few strengths and weeknesses of my own in which I had to confront myself with. if I could relive my life and change things I wouldn't because these are the types of things that shape who we are. And for that person its easier to remember the worse things about her but at some point in time she was a big part of my life and I can look back and laugh at the good times and then turn around and appreciate my own self growth.

So to finish the entry with a little knowledge, just want u guys to try to put things into a "seasons" perspective, it really helps getting over negative things in life and especially when relationships end.

I truly believe that every person in my life has significant purpose.-thats what she said

The one and only

1 comment:

  1. Jagged Edge has a song called Seasons change...its oldie but goodie