Monday, June 1, 2009

The Three Months Rule and such.

The thing I am learning about love and relationships that really confuses me is that there are no real set rules. What works for one may not work for another. However it seems logical for some type of timelines in a relationship. I remember watching "Girlfriends" and always questioning Joans "3 month rule", which was she would wait 3 months before she would sleep with a guy.
In these times, 3 months seem a little long, but at times I wonder if we are just becoming too fast. Should we try and set personal timelines or should we just "go with the flow?". Older women always say "don't give away the milk or he won't buy the cow." But with friends and benefits situations that are turning into real relationships, what are we to believe?
I've heard of people marrying after two months, hell, there are reality shows with people looking for husbands and wives based on NO prior informations on the other. I thought relationships have to have a fountion to last. Maybe that's why the divorce rates are so high....no house will last without a solid foundation. I admit its been tepting to rush into relationships but I personally am choosing to take my time and truly learn the other person.
But back to the topic, how likely is it that a fast paced relationship will last? So my thoughts to leave you all with is just try and take your time with people. Remember, the first few months are the "honeymoon" phase I like to call it, which is when they can do no wrong and your just infatuated. If it is meant to be now, it will be later also.
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  1. I agree with you.. However when does waiting become to long. It's true that if people care about eachother they should be willing to wait. But should one person sacrifice for the other person? and if so how long?

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  2. Sometimes, people just know... I think my husband I and just knew.. but it took us a year or so of being friends before we figured it out and even started seeing each other.

    Although on days where he stares at me because I'm angry and he doesn't know why I honestly question how well he really does know me.

    Then again they say the first year of marriage is the hardest..

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  3. Hate the fact that you're right about the divorce rates and the farcical tv shows. But you've got to believe that there is someone. As the Eagles said, 'Love Will Keep Us Alive'. :)

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