Confessions pt 2

I guess today I'm letting it out. The that's what she said ladies are going on vacation soon. Miami to be exact.

All I'm saying is what happen in Miami....stays in Miami
(Just like it did in Jamaica.lol)

This is my CONFESSION....

"Ayo!!! Dog I meet ni99as, sleep wit ni99as....make me wanna BE A NI99a." Lol I can't take credit for that twist on Dmx's "what these b*tches want from a ni99a.an old friend of mines did. The thing is its true.

I have to come clean. I feel like a man. I feel like mentally I'm a man, to clear that up. Don't get it twisted I don't want the whistle and bells,lol.

For years I've been confused. I can relate to girl problems...but I really can't relate to girl problems. I feel like I handle men issues like guys handle girl issues.

But the other issue is I feel like a man who wants to be a woman! Seriously. I guess I lucked up because I do actually have a vagina.lol

Maybe I'm all f-d up and that's the real confession. But I feel guy mentality is simple, less confusing and complicated. I do have that one issue that I can't let go yet but everyone else is disposable.

"I don't chase em I replace em"- Jay


- QUEEN BEE

The Valentine Hypocrite.

She is repping "all my single ladies", when Miss independent come on, she is singing every lyric. She "don't need NO man". And she is Happy all by herself.

Why then, when Valentines day comes around is she secretly wanting....needing a man to share "love" and "happiness" together? What does she have to prove? And who does she have to prove it to?

This is what I call the Valentine Hypocrite. Seriously if you're single 364 days out of the year, why does that one day matter soooo much? Take yourself out dammit. Spend the day wining and dining yourself. You're suppose to be Miss Independent! Lol.

What I'm saying is don't stress out over this one day. Most the people celebrating aren't really happy anyways. And I don't know about you but I would rather enjoy the day when I'm REALLY happy with someone. Right now I'm just happy with myself.


***DISCLAIMER****
The previous entry does not mean that I'll turn down a free meal/dinner/flowers...if they occur.lol

...that's what she said

-QUEEN BEE

The Best Advice

This is the best advice I can give to anyone about giving advice.

Most of us know that when people come to us and ask for advice...they don't REALLY want it.

What they REALLY want is for you to co sign however they feel. They don't want the truth....they can't handle the truth!

And so the ONLY advice I give is this :do what you want to do. At the end of the day, that's exactly what they'll do anyways.if you learn nothing else, know that people are gonna do what they want regardless of the feedback they get.-thats what she said


-QUEEN BEE

I Definitely Co-sign

So this young man has been making moves with his music around the country for a minute and personally I am a HUGE fan, but when I saw this OMG my life changed.....please please please find me a man that can sing like this and I will be OKKKKK

He is definitely on the come up and I CO-SIGN

thats what she said

Posted by: Sucka for Love 

check out his myspace:

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=75179929

Baby Cause I'm a Thug

I tend to be a girly girl MOST of the time, but there is something about rap that just changes that in me...

Sometimes, when I am in my zone I need some "gangsta" rap to make me feel at ease....for example, something about the song "F*ck them other n*ggas, I ride for my n*ggas" REALLY puts me in a whole other state, ask Queen Bee, lol we get going when that song comes on FOR NO REASON!! That is not even my personality, but I LOVE IT, as soon as the beat drops something comes over me!! 

So right now I am "writing a paper" for my English class boppin my head to Weezy, Hov, and Pac like I'm riding on 22's through the hood, (but in actuality I'm writing about how the inequalities of the public school systems in DC effect the cities high juvenile incarceration rates..see I do real work)

Maybe thats why it has such a universal appeal, cause right now I really feel untouchable, maybe I am, who knows? 

but in the meantime "I'm a G"...even if its to no one else but myself"..you don't have to admit it, but I know you all do it too

Thats what she said

Posted by: Sucka for Love 

WE BOSS BEYATCHES!

THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID LADIES!
~WAVY BABY

STORY TO TELL - TRINA

I love the QUEENS!!!!!

Guys seriously check out "Drag Race" with RuPaul and the queens of the show.

I realize I have an unhealthy obsession with trannies and drag queens that I just can't help.

Something happens whenever I hear a "you better work" or "girl that is fiiiieeerrccee". Lol. It really makes me happy which makes me try to dig deep inside and find out why I love them so much. This is my list so far:

1.they can be as over the top as they want to be. In fact that's what's expected of them
2.They can over do it on the make up and not get criticized.
3.They work it, and the world is there runway!
4.They love glitter and color, weaves wigs and makeup just like I do.
5.They are fearless!
6. They know that at any given moment their life could be taken just because of the lifestyle they live....and yet they LIVE their life their way regardless.love it.
7.Can we say 7 inch stiletto pumps?
8. They usually excel at hair,make up and good ole fashion boy advice.
9. They are divas!
10. They are overall FIERCE!!!!!


I f-ing love them. I need a queen in my life.lol.


But in the mean time remember this advice:(snapping fingers) "YOU BETTER WORK!" (Covergirl, Sashay Shante)




-QUEEN BEE

Universal Similarities

First before I start this blog, thanks to everyone who has been hitting me up and complimenting the blog. Myself and the other ThatsWhatSheSaid Ladies really appreciate it.

The thing about this blog is that it is so relatable, and that's because its things that we all do.

Which made me think of our universal similarites that cross gender/age/race lines.

For example, we all have relationship issues, we've all felt alone at one point. We've all been played and have been the player. We've all had too much pride, we've all had not enough pride, we've been extremely insecure and have been too damn cocky at times too. We've all felt like we weren't good enough and we've felt too good for somethings. We cry sometimes for no reason and occasionally are too tough on ourselves. We've felt high and we've felt low.....and the list goes on and on and on and on.

Basically what I'm saying is every life is filled with everything. There is beauty in individuality, but there is also beauty in similarities.Universal similarities. -thats what she said


-QUEEN BEE

Throwback Video: Bills, Bills,Bills

We in a recession....hook a sista up.lol
-Queen Bee

Wouldnt it be nice if.....

For some reason I was thinking about how advanced technology is today and I thought about that flash memory eraser from Men In Black. I personally would love to flash my own self and forget about a few people...if you dont remember, then it didnt happen. Well i guess all i can do now is have selective memory.lol

-Queen Bee

A smile goes a long way

This is a simple post reminding everyone to smile a little more. I especially love seeing people out smiling in public for no apparent reason. It makes me happy :)

Queen Bee

True Life: Im addicted to my phone

ad·dic·tion : compulsive need for and use of a habit-forming substance (as heroin, nicotine, or alcohol)

Last week was one of the most painful moment of my life...by the way did i mention I was a tad bit dramatic? Anyways back to my agonizing week. I'd gotten a friendly message from T mobile stating that I'd used all of my 1000 texts that I had (no im not gonna get unlimited). I was so sad. Seriously I was sad. I felt like I was missing out on so much even though I could still talk or bbm if I absolutely had to. I realized I have a problem.

Imagine if I had to go a week without my phone? I think I would go crazy. The funny thing is it's not like im getting any mindblowing texts/phone calls/bbms/emails....but i would really feel like i was missing out on something. I remember the days I didnt have a cellphone (maybe 8th grade). I know im not the only one sooooo dependent on my phone. Just letting you all know I made it thru and i finally can text again :)

Maybe A Little Conceited but That's Always Needed

I'm not saying be conceited, but a little self-confidence goes a long way. When you feel like you are beautiful you allow others to feel that same way about you. My guy friends are always telling me about insecure girls they deal with and how that insecurity turns into jealousy (which we all know kills relationships) and eventually drives them away.

Whether you are having a bad hair/skin/clothes day you better WALK like you are a million bucks and I guarantee more people will see your confidence than your flaws. The media overloads us with images of beauty but its up to you to create that image for yourself. 

For example, one thing guys HATE is when you talk about how fat you are to a guy, if you are fat they can't say "yeah you need to loose some weight" and if you're not you just come off insecure and fishing for compliments. So eat that brownie with pride when your with your boo instead of being the boring chic who only eats salads lol 

You all know you've talked to a guy who was NOT CUTE by your normal standards, but there was something about him that drew your interests and attracted you to him. Whatever that "it factor" was, was most likely reaffirmed with the confidence he had. He knew he was talking to a BAD CHICK (like yourself), and let you know that too,  but didn't let that intimidate him or throw him off his game...I like that LOL

Don't take it overboard and have an attitude about it, but remember that the way you carry yourself sets the stage for how you want other people to see you...so WALK LIKE A BOSS GIRL!!

Thats what she said

Posted by: Sucker for love 

"I dont know your name but excuse me TRICK"

"I don't know your name but excuse me TRICK, I'll beat the shit out of you"-by far the funniest Cri-anna spoof I've heard so far

but seriously, wtf is going on when the dancing king himself has to decide to get it "poppin" on Rihanna....I never was a big Chris Brown fan but I'm pretty sure this will have detrimental effects on his career.

I know every girl says "that would never be me" but I honestly mean that. That is the ONE thing that love can't overcome in my book..so KEEP YOUR DAMN HANDS TO YOURSELF GUYS!!

SMH

thats what she said

Posted by: sucka for love 

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