SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU

There is no question about the fact that women and men speak two different languages. In the eve of the best selling book turned movie "He's just not that into you", I figured I'd write about what signs WE give when we're just not that into you, so guys listen up (and the ladies who blog up here like to keep it REAL, please don't get offended)

She's just not "that" into you if......

1. You only see her if YOU are paying for dinner/shopping/movie or anything involving money that YOU are spending ....
2. She doesn't want to chill with you in any intimate setting.

3.In public she is distant or looking around (she is scheming and doesn't want to look like your "date")

4.If she doesn't smile or laugh the whole night...most likely she's thinking mean things about you.

5. She gives you the "friend" hug and only allows you to kiss her on the cheek if that.

6. She has a curiously "busy" schedule (if she liked you, she'd make time for you)

7.If you are the only one calling/texting/emailing etc, and she doesn't respond promptly or call you back...she is not feeling you.

8.If she appears bored/blank and is texting the whole date, you don't have her attention, she's just not that into you.

9.If she said she's not looking for a man right now, she's not into you (ladies you may not be looking but we don't tell that guys we are feeling)

10.If she is telling you about other guys and treating you like a "brother", YOU are in the friend zone SORRY, she's just not that into you.

11. If she didn't say one word the whole date, but on the ride to drop her off home she's in the best mood ever!lol



*** If anyone has more feel free to comment and I'll add.


AND NOW A WORD FOR THE GUYS:

I know a male's ego is sensitive but you have to know too when its time to give it up and stop wasting your time. It is not cute to BEG a girl to go down on her, it actually only shows how desperate you are and its more of a turn off. Please stop flashing your cash like you Diddy, those who have it for real don't have to do all that.And MOST IMPORTANTLY: BE YOURSELF!!! There is nothing worse than a wannabe, and posers are so obvious. Women like nothing more than a man who is real...the same way guys like girls who are real. Accept that everyone is not gonna like you and keep it moving til you find someone who does.-thats what she said


-QUEEN BEE

Blame it on the a-a-alchohol

thats what she said


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Posted by: Sucka for love

Trusting Your GUT!!!!

A quote that I really like by Oprah Winfrey is "doubt means dont"....in other words sometimes you know when something isnt right. I was thinking about a situation with a guy that looked PERFECT on paper....but since day one, something was telling me something wasnt right about him...and sure enough with time I was right.

The problem is, we sometimes ignore that feeling and invest time/money/love into something that wasnt meant to be from the beginning and the result is always unsuccessful. So if you take anything from this blog, take this: dont go against your INSTINCT....you can feel when something isnt right.-thats what she said


-Queen BEE

Throwback Video: Dont take it personal

You wasnt a girl if you wasnt feeling this song HARD.lol


-Queen Bee

DEAR QUEEN B

YOU JUST MADE ME GO THRU ALL TYPE OF EMOTIONS AND SHAMBLES
I SAW YOUR POST SUPERWOMAN

i went back to when this song came out
i remember
i had the pink patent leather jordans
he had the blues ones to match
(i was still in my pretty girl tomboy mode)
i had the pink lacoste
he had the blue
(U DAMN RIGHT WE WAS MATCHING)
WE WAS ON THE BASKETBALL COURTS
in a hood near YOU

THE SONG CAME ON
i sung lil mo part like i had the blue streaks in my cornrows
then
well then
F A B came on
n he said "YOU KNOW I CARE FOR YOU"

SOO YEA

THERE'S ANOTHER REFLECTION

thanks Queen B
of reminding me of my first love
est-'96 & WE'RE STILL ROCKING


~WAVY SABEY

I LOVE MY HOES

IMA STOP ABANDONING MY HOES WHEN I MEET SOMEONE I LIKE
CUZ THEN WHEN THE SHIT DONT WORK OUT
I GOTTA RECRUIT AGAIN

~wavy baby

Ok, the friend requests are out of control

Remember when facebook was an innocent place where college students could gather and "poke" one another instead of studying? those days are long gone. They are replaced by random club promoters and sketchy DC guys friending me and facebook chatting me....that's not what facebook was made for...maybe I'm a little aprehensive about friend requests since getting GOT....

Background: I used to randomly accept friend requests without paying much attention to who it was, so one day I go to write on my friend "Tiffany"'s wall for her birthday, thinking it is this girl I went to highschool with. When I get to the page "Tiffany" has no pictures, 2 friends (me and some random dude that goes to my school), and no history but becoming facebook friends with me and that other guy a year prior. Me being the person I am write on "Tiffany's" wall Happy Birthday BUDDY I hope you enjoy it >:-! moral of the story...I got GOT by some nosey person who wanted to facebook stalk me...

In 2009 facebook is like myspace (filled with booty shots and all) and myspace is the ghetto directory (filled with hood shoutouts payless shoes)....where is a young lady like myself to turn....BLOGGING!! its the BS'n mechanism of '09 in case you didn't already know 

at the end of the day IM NOT ACCEPTING YOUR FRIEND REQUEST BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO GET CREEPY CHATS FROM YOU AT 4AM WHEN I'M "WORKING ON A PAPER" (see photo)!!!

well....that's what she said 

Posted by: Sucka for love <3

V-day is coming up...

And of course I want to shoot myself. I hate V-Day because it reminds me that “you are a terrible person for being single and now you must suffer by watching other people "act" happy because they think that they are in love". V-Day should just be called D-Day. So for all my single ladies out there..how do you survive D-Day? I don't know...Maybe you should gather up several of your girlfriends (who share the same belief) and go to dinner and discuss how young gentleman are not so gentle with your feelings(aka n***** aint s****)..

But on a better note, Gucci is releasing its spring collection and it looks promising. So hurry up and file your taxes so you can get that cash refund and stimulate the economy.

Do you want to see love? Love is that picture above. Those shoes are from the Christian Louboutin collection. High-shine calf leather is artistically stitched to mosaic effect. Pieced detail. Peep toe. Concealed platform. 4 7/10" covered heel. Signature red sole. Made in Italy. Fabulosity at its best.
Mirrored Platform Pump
Price:$1,295.00
I want those to be my Valentines and not some stupid guy....Thats What She Said.



Best,
Mookie

Throwback Video: Superwoman

You werent a girl back in the day if you wasnt feeling this song HARD....



Queen B

Product Review: Maybelline Stiletto Mascara

SOOOOOO Im a bit of a PRODUCT JUNKY....and Im a bit broke. You mix the two and you end up at WALMART for your beauty necessities. There once was time I fancied Dior and Lancome but um right about now paying over $20 is discusting for me....And so I get my mascara from the drugstore.

Everyone who knows me knows that Im a tranny on the inside and so I love long fake like lashes....and this product definitely delivered the length of that....soooo perfect for those especially with short bottom lashes...


Verdict: Try out this mascara if you LOVE length....it didnt really curl or thicken but you'll look like you're wearing falsies...-thats what she said


-QUEEN BEE

Things That Make Men Squirm......

Why is that when you talk to a guy and you ask about his friends (so you could hook up your friends), they always act like they dont know the difference between an ugly guy or a pretty decent one???? We're not asking if you think he's sexy or if you want to sleep with him....we just simply want to know if he's straight busted. And I dont for one second believe they dont know the difference.....



me to a guy on this topic:
"so what you're saying is that there is no difference between Flavor Flav and Boris KOdjoe??"

him:"no"

NINJA PLEASE!!!!!!!-thats what she said


-QUEEN BEE

Chocolate MANdy.....Idris Elba

MANDY= MAN (eye) CANDY



So lately I've been thinking about getting down with the swirl.....men like this one reminds me why i LOVEs the chocolate so much....well if you really know me, you'd say I'm fond of the caramel.lol





"you make me wanna Hershey's kiss your Licorice"-India Arie



-QUEEN BEE

When it all falls down

There's something about shopping that gives me such a good feeling. Whenever I'm sad, depressed, or lonely off to the stores  I go. Online shopping is my newest vice too. Don't get me wrong I'm not running up crazy debt or anything, but using my monopoly money (credit cards) has become to common. 

I remember high school like it was yesterday. The week before new jordans came out everyone talked about it and started begging their parents for the money to come to school fresh that Monday (mind you fresh was considered the new J's, a white shirt, and matching belt, O how things have changed, if this hasn't changed for you, please hit me up and we can discuss some new options for you). It's so funny how this concept of fresh has transformed as I've grown up, but at the end of the day I think its in search of the same feeling. I shop to find things that make me look good, and therefore make me feel good, even when I'm not feeling so hot. 

The compliments you got for your new J's or the new designer bag you bought just do something to brighten my day....call it self-absorbed or materialistic but it's been doing the job. At the end of the day, I know its not the best way to channel my energy, but its gonna have to do the job for now.

On another note, these recession sales have been off the hook.

I got a problem with spending before I get it

 we all self conscious I'm just the first to admit it

Just call me "single black female addicted to retail".....that's what she said 

Posted by: Sucker for Love

WHAT I LIKE ABOUT YOU......

"You don't wear weaves when I see you" -thats what HE said

"Are you talking about me? EVERYTIME I see you I have a weave in"-me

(Defeated face)
"Oh well it look real"


(Flava Flav voice)
"WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWW"




Random funny moments are what I live for....and people who know the situation can lol a little louder
-QUEEN B

Bloggercizing

So I'm at Planet Fitness trying to not be super competitive with the person next to me even though I been here five more minutes than him and he's already doubled my calories on the bicycle. F-ing Show off!!!!!

Tryna get right without the Kanye workout plan.lol. Anyways there's a cute a$$ personal trainer....I think I need him to train me personally.lol....if I were a guy I'd be a mess- that's what she said



-Queen Bee

Wanted Ad: Replacement for the Replacement

Okay, so I'm back with another one. So remember when I told you I was currently receiving help from someone with getting over the one I "fell" for in '08. Well I think I need a replacement for the replacement. In other words, I think I'm beginning to "like" my help buddy. And btw, this is a broad definition of like. I don't like him in terms of I think about him before I go to sleep at night nor do I send him random texts messages to see how he is doing during the day. But when he does text me, I do get all giggly inside and unfortunately I had a dream about him (so I guess I did think about him once before I fell asleep at night). I do not know if I am keeping him around because I still need the help or because I like him.

The real question is..."does he like me"? I don't know and I'm not asking (even though I want to know). So before I start liking him, I need to find a replacement for the replacement. Something tells me that this may be an unhealthy coping mechanism, but it works...and it will continue to work until I find someone who i think is irreplaceable. Someone like Barack...Thats What She Said.



Yours Truly,
Samantha Jones

CUZ I NEED MY AUNTNANCE N MY LIFE

~wavy baby

REMIX!!!!!!

I personally like to make things my own, so when I hear a song I think "how can I make this song more ME?".



**** For example, in T.I's "whatever you like" song is SOOOOOO much more fun if you sing it like this:

*instead of saying "I want YOUR BODY need YOUR BODY, long as you got me you won't need NO BODY"......

* say it like this:"I want JOE BIDEN, need JOE BIDEN, long as you go me you won't need Nobody"


Stuff like this brightens me up, try it you'll like it!


So my newest remix is Bobby Valentino's song

*instead of saying: "she gon let me beat, beat, beat,beat, beat"

*this is funnier: "he gon make me SKEET,SKEET,SKEET,SKEET,SKEET!!!"

Lol this soooo fun guys. If you have anymore leave a comment.-thats what she said




-QUEEN B

Throwback Video: Foolish

You werent a girl back in the day if you wasnt feeling this song HARD. lol-thats what she said Queen Bee

Pain=Beauty

I was watching E today and they had a special on plastic surgery and it made me think of the depths we as women go thru for beauty. Seriously if guys were held to the beauty standard that we are held to, im sure things would be much simpler. Imagine a guy getting waxed every too weeks or enduring the agony of a burning perm....or acrylic nails,etc. We really go thru alot to be beautiful... anyways be a little bit easier on yourselves guys. REmember its whats on the inside that count.......SIKE thats just what ugly people say to make themselves feel better-thats what she said

-Queen Bee

Its his intuition

this song rocks, like seriously....guys take a listen to the words and study hard 

Jamie baby you could have made it a whole song though smh 

on another note, its kind of hard to picture Jamie King on the Jamie Foxx show singing this or any of his serious songs. congrats on really making it

well....that's what she said

brought to you by: sucka for love

I'd hit That...

Todays I'd hit that is to a man who caught my eye in my attempts to watch the Footbowl.....oops Super Bowl....Anyways his name is Larry Fitzerald and I'd definetely let him touchdown...below. lol

- Queen Bee